The Process

In hindsight, being overwhelmed or in over our heads has never been a bad thing. The results we get from putting our heads down, embracing the suck and keeping the end goal in mind makes it all worth it. Short-term sacrifice for long-term gain is a trade off we will take everyday, especially in our 20s. Once again we find ourselves in this precarious - albeit, voluntarily precarious situation. How did we get here? Well, we first took on a boat that needed a lot of work with only half the year available to work on it (damn you winter). Then 6 months later we bought a 4 bedroom Airbnb investment property in my home city of brotherly love that required every ounce of cash we could muster up. We now have 2 massive projects on our hands, plus the most leverage we’ve ever had in our lives and are voluntarily overwhelmed.

Our end goal of being financially ‘free’ living aboard in the Caribbean and spending hurricane seasons in the mountains is as close as its ever been but for now it’s hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. This moment - a moment of building, a moment of being entrenched in the process is why we decided to share our adventure online. No one actually shows the building phase of their adventure, just the entertaining end result of sailing or traveling the world. This results in us as viewers keying up a number of biases in our own minds, like survivorship bias and inner dialogue that amounts to self-limiting beliefs about how we can’t do what these people are doing because name it. We’ve personally fallen victim to these biases more times than we can count.

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I don't think its by design or the fact that other travel and sailing YouTube channels do this on purpose. The truth is no one wants to film themselves going to their 9-5 for multiple years then spending weekends not drinking their money away or dumping 75% of their paycheck on housing. And unfortunately, the majority of viewers on YouTube don't want to watch that every week. Entertainment is what the masses want and clicks are what creators need so in turn you get content made solely for entertainment, 99% of the time. This is the most profitable route as a creator and the path of least resistance. We’d be lying if we didn’t say we felt this happening with our content once we started to cruise the Keys & Tortugas last Spring.


‘In the end this will be worth it.’ and ‘Who told you this would be easy?’ seems to be our go-to self-talk lately. Spending Monday-Friday ripping out crumbling lath & plaster walls almost 150 years old in our Philly townhouse and then spending weekends making slow progress on new Luci has been a struggle. But it’s a struggle of the best kind. A struggle in which we own, embrace and enjoy.

“If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.” Thoreau

The Things That Matter

Minimalism has some really weird connotations and misconceptions. I think it stems from the word itself - minimalism. It conjures up this image of someone who lives with so little when in reality the opposite is true. The way in which I view minimalism is living a life where one only surrounds themselves with the things that truly matter.

Maximalism, is a much better way of describing minimalism. Meaning - getting the maximum value from the things that bring you the most happiness, or simply choosing to only surround yourself with those people, places or things. The path one takes to get to that level of understanding in their lives is one that is probably all over the map. For me, I think the roots of these ideals that now guide my life came about after almost losing my little brother to a severe traumatic brain injury and a few years later, a best friend to stage IV cancer. Life can be terribly fleeting and it was always so easy for me to forget that while pursuing a ‘successful’ life or career.

Remaining aware of that is something I still struggle with all the time. Whether it be pursuing financial independence or wanting to hit a milestone for our YouTube series or having a better week trading our investment account. But do these made-up metrics and clicks of an arrow on someone else’s screen actually matter? How much long-term happiness does that bring me?

Remembering that scarcity is simply something that has been sold to me has been paramount. I was over the moon to see us reach 10,000 subscribers but now I could easily focus on wanting us to have 90,000, then 100,000 - you get the idea. One milestone leads to another which leads to another which ultimately leads to this pursuit of the unattainable. It’s like focusing on the end goal instead of the process one takes to achieve that goal. There will never be enough with that mindset.

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Its a constant, ongoing battle of reminding myself of the things that actually matter. A daily reminder of things to be grateful for helps me escape the clutches of scarcity and the unattainable. Being happy with what you have and not wanting what you don’t need is an age old recipe for happiness. And that’s ultimately all we should be pursuing - happiness.

Life Through A Lens

Our first instinct used to be stop and stare when on an adventure. Whether it be a turtle surfacing on a passage or getting a break in the clouds on a summit, we’d stop and drink it in. Nowadays it’s become stop and share. It makes me question our motives for traveling. Before the YouTube series, it was to connect with nature, have our asses kicked by some physical adventure and then come back to truly enjoy the everyday comforts we all take for granted.

One of my favorite things about being on a long, grueling hike with switchbacks that never seem to end is that I’m forced to be present. It’s a similar feeling to running marathons or surfing in the dead of winter staring down 6+ ft walls of jersey juice. I’m forced to deal with the here and now. Put your head down and paddle harder or enjoy a few ice cream headaches. My mind is completely focused on the task at hand, nothing else.

Enjoying some “Jersey Juice” with my Dad thanks to Hurricane Jose last fall.

Enjoying some “Jersey Juice” with my Dad thanks to Hurricane Jose last fall.

Life through a lens makes you view things in a different light. You’re focusing on the shot, the story and your first instinct is to grab the camera. No matter which way you spin it, the truth is experiencing an adventure through the lens isn’t being present. That’s why for our last trip we decided to leave behind the camera gear. Well, the video camera at least. Taking pictures versus documenting via video are two totally different beasts.

This past trip was a lot like our adventures before we decided to share them on YouTube. Not going to lie, it was refreshing. It came with a feeling we haven’t felt in years. Does it mean we’ll stop sharing our journey? Probably not. But at the end of the day, our mission for starting AC wasn’t to entertain or have the camera in our face 24/7. It was to educate through transparency and show what it actually looks like when living out ones great adventure. Not the typical travel vlog; aka a highlight reel of us romanticizing our lives. Everyday we stay motivated by that and are always looking to evolve the series to better cater to our vision.


We think it’s healthy to question our motives for why we do what we do. Nothing is worse than just dragging on and tolerating the mediocre with the unfounded hopes of some promise land at the end of it all. Questioning our motives keeps us true to our mission. It keeps us in check. And most importantly, it keeps us present.

There's a Recession Coming

Dear Debt,

Hi debt, you antithesis of freedom. You short-term savior and long-term captor. Oh debt, how you can be tweaked and twisted in so many ways to look so attractive. It's like that saying, "You can put lipstick on a pig..but it's still a pig." that I heard 5 times a day from fellow stockbrokers. No matter how much makeup people slap on you debt, at the end of the day, you're still soul-sucking debt.

I should probably stop here and offer up a disclaimer. This post will be a little more into the weeds than our usual personal finance posts but so many of you have pleaded with us to get into the weeds, so here we are. And this post may come with up to two scary graphs but I can assure you, they will be accompanied by a layman's guide to being understood. 

I should start by describing how Kelsey and I treat debt because let's face it, not all debt is bad - just 99% of it. We look at debt rationally and understand that if an asset, meaning a car, house, etc. comes with a loan - it is not an asset, it's simply a liability. Now if the asset comes with a loan or mortgage but it provides monthly income, it is then an asset because you are simply using debt as leverage to increase your monthly income. An example of this would be using a 15yr or 30yr fixed mortgage to buy a rental property. That's good debt, pretty much everything else is lipstick on pigs. 


Now debt has some surprisingly strong supporters nowadays considering how 4 out of every 5 Americans carry over $50,000 in debt. A lot of people we talk to about debt like to say they can 'beat' their interest rate on their loans. The reality is these people virtually never invest their discretionary income to 'beat' their interest rates and continue to only own stocks via their 401k or IRA (retirement accounts). They then continue spending as they typically would. In order to beat anything, you have to at least play, right?

Now prepare for the scary graph and me throwing out clickbait headlines like "there's a recession coming" because let's face it, there is.

This chart is showing how little people save nowadays (green line) compared to how much debt compared to their income (pink line) they carry.

This chart is showing how little people save nowadays (green line) compared to how much debt compared to their income (pink line) they carry.

It's been nearly a decade since our last recession and the U.S. business cycle likes to mean revert (meaning go back to equilibrium) every 8-10 years on average. Now before you say this time is different understand that no time is different, ever. Yes, everything is unicorns and rainbows right now so no one wants to talk about scary what-ifs but seriously, we're overdue for the market to balance out again. Now I'm not calling for another great recession like we experienced in '08 & '09. All I'm saying is things currently look expensive and if we're patient enough we'll be able to buy things at cheaper prices.

So what does this mean for our plans? Well as all of you know, we have no debt. We sold the old boat for 60k and bought the new one for a lot less so we have some cash to put to work. A big factor for us selling the old boat to buy a smaller one was setting ourselves up to make our lifestyle of consuming less & adventuring more, permanent. Meaning we did not want to continue to remain 100% reliant on AC for our income because what happens to Patreon when a recession does hit? Being in this weird space of people voluntarily paying for a service typically means we're pretty high up on the discretionary income totem pole. Sure, going through another refit and a big change (like a new boat) doesn't bode well for our YouTube series but in the long-term, us owning a cheaper to maintain boat while having more cash in the bank equates to AC not being another flash in the pan like other short-lived YT series. 

Now back to what we're doing with our extra cash. Since we've been Airbnb hosts off and on since 2015 and it's something we thoroughly enjoy, we may buy an investment property for short-term rental. Or maybe we'll just sit on the cash for a little while waiting for more opportunities to pop up. Because as we all know, it's much better to buy things when they're on sale and last time we checked it's been awhile since our last sale - close to 10 years. So we're happy to let the good times roll but it doesn't mean we're not preparing for when the music stops. All we can do is position ourselves to make the most of when the cycle does complete and treat it as the buying opportunity it truly is. 

Consumers aren't the only ones that have a newly found love affair with debt, corporations do as well. This shows corporate debt at all-time highs.

Consumers aren't the only ones that have a newly found love affair with debt, corporations do as well. This shows corporate debt at all-time highs.

Companies call debt leverage, and so should we. Some of the best personal finance advice we've received is to treat your bank account like a business. Given we're approaching the end of the business cycle, we're looking to deleverage and put our eggs in other baskets. Now don't take this blog post and go move your 401k into all cash. If you're investing for a traditional retirement, business cycles shouldn't mean anything to you. But for us, we don't want a traditional retirement. We want to be happy, and doing meaningful work where the amount of money we earn from our work isn't a factor, for the duration of our time on this blue marble. 

We plan on doing AC for the long haul and if we want to continue to be self-reliant that means we need to diversify our income. As we've learned from sailing, patience keeps us out of trouble and preparation is all we can do - everything else is out of our control. 

The Fear

A lot of people have commented on our most recent episode noticing how mad some people are in the comments about our decision to downsize. It’s a sad reality, but pursuing a dream or great adventure will always be met with adversity along the way. Negativity from friends, family, or co-workers has no place in pursuing dreams, although it’s the most abundant - or it just stings the most. Going against the grain is part of pursuing this lifestyle.

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The truth is we all have a choice to make. Do we focus on the positive or the negative? Unfortunately, we are all conditioned to focus more intently on the negative. Regardless of how baseless someone’s opinion may be, the negative always seems to leave a bigger dent than the positive. Fear has a scary way of consuming people’s lives.

While we were pursuing our dream, for every doubter we had, there was a supporter. Like someone who once had a similar dream but gave it up because life got in the way and they now could look back on their life with the subtle awareness of knowing, they didn’t want someone else to do what they did and ultimately, give up. Kelsey was told it’d be impossible to pay off $25,000 of student loans a year on a $34,000 yearly salary. We were told our eventual slaughter would come from hosting guests on AirBnB. With the benefit of hindsight, we know 75+ guests later we have yet to have a bad guest and we’ve been happily debt-free for 2+ years now. 


Teddy Roosevelt is accredited with a quote talking about ‘the man in the arena’. It’s a long one so I’ll paraphrase. “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena...” 

I write this post in the hopes of reaching people who find themselves in our situation a few years back. The person with the big, hairy, audacious dream that seems impossible - until it’s done. Know that you are on the right path. Living a life dictated by fear is not a life well lived. Follow your dreams and let your values drive your decision-making. Treat everything else as just noise, because that’s really all it is. You don’t have to answer to anyone other than yourself as to whether you lived the life you had envisioned when it comes time to say goodbye to this world. Remember that. Harness the power of mortality and use it to combat fear. 

Life is a lot more fun when you’re in the arena. 

Abandon Convenience

Abandon Convenience is what I originally wanted to call this vlog-blog thing we’re doing here. As with most of my ideas, Kelsey played her part of the sieve, laughed, and said try again. It definitely doesn’t have the same ring as Abandon Comfort, nor the dual meaning of pushing your comfort zone while also reducing the amount of comfort we surround ourselves with and ultimately waste money on - but it tells a clearer story. 

Now don't get me wrong, we both enjoy comfort and convenience, but typically only after we feel we've earned it. Like after spending 24 hours on a passage with little to no sleep, then arriving at your protected anchorage and rowing over to the closest restaurant to woof down some grub. Living without constant comfort and convenience truly makes you appreciate these luxuries when you do get the chance to enjoy them. 


My fellow millennials are the biggest culprits of taking convenience and rebranding it as experience. That local coffee shop you visit twice a week for lunch isn't an experience, it's a convenience and its crushing your ability to live out your dreams simply because its tying spending to happiness. The sad part is this is such a basic concept: Don't buy stuff, embrace frugality and eventually live out your dream, yet virtually no one actually does it. The reasons why are still befuddling to me. I assume most people construct some false narrative in their mind that allows them to write off others living their dreams as trust fund babies or just being luckier than them. Or maybe its because we've all grown accustomed to instant gratification and don't want to put in the hours to lay the foundation for executing our dreams.

It probably has something to do with us humans not being wired to think of things from a “long-term” perspective, hence why so many of us spend money on things that are unrelated to our dreams, while we work jobs we hate, to watch our limited savings and prospect of not having to participate in mandatory work slowly slip away. It’s hard to be rational when everyone around you is smothered in the usual, daily luxuries and conveniences of our modern, rich world. 


Then, of course, there are the stigmas surrounding it. Being cheap has never been cool nor will it ever be. There are no corporate interests promoting frugality. You can't make money off telling people not to spend it. There's no billboards or 5-second ads harassing you on YouTube telling you to save your money so you can actually follow your dreams. The same could be said for reducing your environmental impact. If there's nothing to sell, there's no awareness. We don't treat frugality and the ability to not buy useless shit as the golden tickets to freedom that they truly are. 

Some say comfort is the biggest killer of dreams, I'd argue convenience is.


It may not seem it on the surface but our path to being financially independent & working for ourselves has been riddled with countless failures along the way. I tried to be an online professional poker player, full-time stock trader/blogger and launch a handful of unsuccessful startups that I ultimately gave up on.

Looking back a year ago I almost ended up working for Robinhood and shipping Luci out to the west coast. Instead, I launched Spared and quit my full-time job as a Financial Advisor. You really never know what awaits you around the next turn.

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Hints of Nostalgia

Taken the day we purchased our 352. Mark Twain giving us a subtle reminder of why we needed to do this.

Taken the day we purchased our 352. Mark Twain giving us a subtle reminder of why we needed to do this.

One of our viewers left this quote as a comment on our most recent episode. It struck a cord deep within me and brought about the not-so-distant feelings of taking the leap from our 2 bedroom home in ritzy Hyde Park, to 150 square feet of freedom. While reminiscing upon the liberating feeling of having all of our stuff finally constrained to a 35' boat, my mind was transported back to the origination of our journey. 

To us, abandoning comfort is leaving behind the excess in pursuit of what truly matters to us. Comfort clutters our dreams and quells our instinctual nature to get out there and explore. Sure, there is nothing better than coming home to a comfy king bed after spending a week on the trail or a hot fresh water shower after a 5-day journey underway. But it always takes the former to appreciate the latter. It reminds me of a quote John Krakauer mentions in "Into Thin Air".

"How much of the appeal of mountaineering lies in its simplification of interpersonal relationships, its reduction of friendship to smooth interaction (like war), its substitution of an Other (the mountain, the challenge) for the relationship itself? Behind a mystique of adventure, toughness, footloose vagabondage - all much-needed antidotes to our culture's built-in comfort and convenience - may lie in a kind of adolescent refusal to take seriously aging, the frailty of others, interpersonal responsibility, weakness of all kinds, the slow and unspectacular course of life itself."- David Roberts

Removing the clutter in our lives brought about our true north. It dialed us back in to what really matters. It reminded us about the intense fragility of life itself and how important it is to pursue your dreams while you have the privilege to do so. Nothing is ever guaranteed. Tomorrow isn't as certain as it may seem. It took us almost 2 years to the day to create this opportunity and it’s something we will not take for granted. The halyards are attached, time to catch some breeze.

Sailing Plans, An Oxymoron

Man, Kelsey and I are planners to a fault. We're your stereotypical Type-A couple and then some. And by then some I mean I grew up in a military household then spent 5 years in the service myself, where my branch's motto was about always being prepared and having a plan. Now being prepared and things having a place works incredibly well with living on a sailboat. Plans, however, do not. 

Our lovely sailboat we call home is not a planner. By her nature, she is always going wherever the wind takes her. Plans are not something she controls but something Mother Nature does. She's a stoic who knows what's in her sphere of influence and what isn't. 

For us, this lesson has been a hard taught one. For example, when we bought Lucidity about a year ago we planned on keeping her on the hard in Indiantown for a month to do a bottom job and install an ice box conversion. Didn't happen. Bottom job is now overdue and we own an Engel. How about our first year cruising plans? Ha! We were bound for Havana & Dry Tortugas by last Fall at the absolute latest. Poor Luci hasn't left the dock in 11 months! 

I could go on and on sharing our other best-laid plans since moving aboard but I'll spare you the monotony. We can plan all we want but at the end of the day, old man universe is going to do whatever the hell he wants. We've found what works best for us is having a few loose plans in place so that way when it comes time for one to come to fruition, it usually involves either a combination or deviation of all of them. 

Sailing the Caribbean by the end of 2017 was admittedly a very loose plan. After founding an early-stage tech company this past October, the Caribbean seemed more like a distant dream than anything reminiscent of a plan. 6 months out it's looking like our reality now. But who knows. We've learned to take after Luci and just go wherever the wind blows us.

Survey & Sea Trial Basics

Disclaimer: This post is meant for educational purposes mainly for people who have little to no prior boating experience. These are questions Kelsey and I had before we started the survey/sea trial process. Also, these are questions we've been asked by friends with no boating experience who are thinking of pursuing this lifestyle. We hope this helps you in choosing an alternative, location-independent lifestyle! 

First off, what's a Survey?

Well, if you're considering a survey, you are admittedly a novice boater or feel the need to have a professional look over your big purchase before you dump endless sums of money into some POS. Either way, smart move on your part. So, a survey is very similar to a home buying inspection. You hire a "Surveyor", preferably one who is SAMs certified, to inspect your boat prior to buying it. This is what is known as a "Pre-Purchase Survey".

Real life red flag during our boat hunt - a boat's owner says they had a survey done for you so there's no need for you to have one done yourself. Well, the previous owner had an "Insurance Survey" done, about 1 year prior to us seeing the boat and the boat was in the water during the time of survey. Huge difference between pre-purchase survey (extensive inspection 4-6 hours) and insurance survey (start the engine, check dates of flares, roughly 2 hours).

How about a Sea Trial?

Sounds like something that happens in an episode of Game of Thrones. No Hodor, a sea trial occurs at some point in the survey. Think of a sea trial as the boat buying version of test-driving a new car. Except in this case the guy or gal trying to sell you this vehicle (Broker or Owner) is probably behind the helm the whole time. Also, if a surveyor is present they'll be helping with hoisting the sails or line handling coming in and out of the slip. Just sit back, enjoy the ride and the soon-to-be short lived peace of mind of not having to worry about running aground or your engine dying in the middle of a power-boater laden channel. 

Is a survey required before buying a boat?

If you pay cash, no. If you're getting a soul-sucking boat mortgage accruing more interest than average stock market returns, then it's probably required by the bank you're becoming an indentured servant to. Think you can't pay cash for a boat or save up tens of thousands required to make a big purchase? You totally can! If you're born in the U.S. you're born into the top 10% of wealth in the world, regardless of what class you fall under. Give your spending the check-up it deserves by reading this

Should I get a survey?

Depends! What's the boat's value? If you're paying $4,000 for a boat you probably shouldn't be spending 15% of the purchase price on a $600 survey. If you're spending $25,000 on a boat, it probably makes a lot of sense to get a survey done to know exactly what you're getting into.

Have more questions? leave them below for us to answer :)